There’s a phrase doing the rounds lately that’s simple, but hits deep: “Let them.”
Let them talk.
Let them leave.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them do whatever it is they’re doing, while you focus on what’s yours.
Because here’s the truth: trying to control how other people behave, think, or show up is an instant energy drain. It’s like shouting at the weather. You can’t stop the rain, but you can grab a gorgeous umbrella and keep walking.
That’s what “let them” is all about. It’s not cold, it’s not passive, it’s powerful. It’s about releasing attachment to outcomes and trusting that what’s meant for you won’t need to be chased, explained, or forced.
And of course, I couldn’t resist pairing this energy with crystals that help you actually embody it.
Smoky Quartz ~ for grounding and clearing. Helps you release attachment to outcomes (and to other people’s behaviour).
Rose Quartz ~ because letting them is the ultimate act of self-love. You choose peace over proving a point.
Amethyst ~ for a higher perspective. Calms the mind and helps you detach from drama.
Labradorite ~ for trusting your intuition and believing what you see, not what you hope for.
Black Tourmaline ~ for protection and energetic boundaries. Keeps you rooted in your own lane.
Each one holds a little piece of that “let them” energy, calm, confident, quietly strong.
So next time someone’s testing your patience or pushing your buttons, take a deep breath, look down at your wrist (see below), and remember: you don’t need to fix, chase, or convince. Just let them.
Explore our ‘Let Them’ bracelets here and carry that ‘peace within’ energy wherever you go.